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THE JOURNAL · MATCHMAKER AMY

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who understands you.

Ask about the person, the process, and the network before you commit. You should feel comfortable asking direct questions.

Before you begin

The best matchmaker is not simply the person with the largest database. Here are the questions to ask when deciding who you trust with something this personal.

Choosing a Matchmaker: Key Considerations

When selecting a matchmaker, it's essential to ask the right questions to ensure their approach aligns with your needs and expectations. Here are some important areas to explore:

1. Approach

- What is your matchmaking philosophy? - How do you select potential matches? - Do you use any specific tools or assessments to understand clients better?

2. Introductions

- How many introductions can I expect? - What criteria do you use to determine compatibility for introductions? - How do you facilitate the first meeting between matches?

3. Privacy

- How do you protect my personal information? - What measures are in place to ensure confidentiality during the matchmaking process? - Can I have control over what information is shared with potential matches?

4. Expectations

- What kind of results can I realistically expect? - How long does the matchmaking process typically take? - What happens if I’m not satisfied with the matches provided?

5. Compatibility

- How do you assess compatibility between clients? - Do you take into account lifestyle, values, and relationship goals? - Can you provide examples of successful matches that align with my preferences? By addressing these areas, you can make an informed decision when choosing a matchmaker that fits your personal needs.

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